Review #2/ The Talk Funny Girl

Title: The Talk Funny Girl
Author: Roland Merullo
Pub Date: August 2012
Publisher: Crown Publishing
Pages: 304

Source: I received this from the publisher for my honest and sincere review

In one of the poorest parts of rural New Hampshire, teenage girls have been disappearing, snatched from back country roads, never to be seen alive again. For seventeen-year-old Marjorie Richards, the fear raised by these abductions is the backdrop to what she lives with her own home, every day. Marjorie has been raised by parents so intentionally isolated from normal society that they have developed their own dialect, a kind of mountain hybrid of English that displays both their ignorance of and disdain for the wider world. Marjorie is tormented by her classmates, who call her “The Talk-funny girl,” but as the nearby factory town sinks deeper into economic ruin and as her parents fall more completely under the influence of a sadistic cult leader, her options for escape dwindle. But then, thanks to a loving aunt, Marjorie is hired by a man, himself a victim of abuse, who is building what he calls “a cathedral,” right in the center of town.

Day by day, Marjorie’s skills as a stone worker increase, and so too does her intolerance for the bitter rules of her family life. Gradually, through exposure to the world beyond her parents’ wood cabin thanks to the kindness of her aunt and her boss, and an almost superhuman determination, she discovers what is lovable within herself. This new found confidence and self-esteem ultimately allows her to break free from the bleak life she has known, to find love, to start a family, and to try to heal her old, deep wounds without passing that pain on to her husband and children.

By turns darkly menacing and bright with love and resilience, The Talk-Funny Girl is the story of one young woman’s remarkable courage, a kind of road map for the healing of early abuse, and a testament to the power of kindness and love.

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When I was contacted to review the book I really wanted to read it because it sounded really good and I honestly tried several times to pick it up to read but in the end i would put it back down.

Finally as we rolled in to 2013, I told myself that I really needed to sit down and finish this no matter what and that is what I did this past week. I haven’t been feeling very well these last few days so I took to curling up on the couch and reading.

Before sitting down to officially write my review I took to amazon to see what others thought and felt and sadly I feel as though I am in the minority. Everyone has loved the book and I think that’s what makes us all a special group because not everyone will love every book so with saying that please don’t leave me hate comments because we are all entitled to our opinions.

The book is about a young seventeen year old girl named Marjorie and she lives in a rural part of New Hampshire with her parents (who I honestly have to say I didn’t like from the get go. I thought the mother would encourage the father to punish Marjorie at any chance and for any reason) and she is basically isolated from the world and people until an outsider comes to town and reports to the authorities about this young girl (when she was 9 years old) so she goes to school. At first she is having a hard time but quickly makes up for lost time and is now finally in the same grade as her peers. Although she stands out with the way she looks and talks she makes the best out of it and becomes a hard worker.

As the story progresses we discover that Marjorie is being abused at home by her parents. Which honestly I have a hard time reading these kinds of books because I always wonder what kind of parents or people would purposely hurt someone who is defenceless? The abuse is stemmed from the Pastor at the church the family attends. He thinks its perfectly fine to douse them (taking them down to a river, no matter what time of the year, and pouring cold water on them), boying (forcing the girls to wear boy clothes and be treated like a boy for the punishment period) and facing (forcing them to wear a bag over their heads and being poked by people of the church) This was another part of the book that bothered me. I just think its wrong.

Almost at eighteen years old Marjorie is told she must find work to support her family. Her father is on a life time disability and her mother doesn’t work. Living in a small rural area work can be hard to find and more so for her because of her speaking which I found was another reason I couldn’t get into the book it was just to hard for me to read and enjoy. I find it hard to believe that she would speak like that because she started school at the age of 9. Why didn’t some teacher step in? She wasn’t that isolated. Plus no one in the community spoke like that, it was just her parents.

So despite the way she spoke she finds work with Sands (a stone mason) who has bought the old burned down church to rebuild and turn into a Cathedral. Throughout the book he teaches her the way and what to do. She is enjoying it. I think this is the one bright spot in her life. She soon finds out that there is more to Sands then meets the eye. In a good way. Sands knows her aunt Elaine and I honestly think he brought Sands into the community so that he could keep an eye on her. Making sure she was safe and okay. Which I loved and you could see her aunt was doing what was best and trying to help her.

Another worry for Marjorie was the fact that young girls were going missing in and around her area. I was always curious to who was involved and how it would play out throughout the book. Would Marjorie be a victim to that? I was honestly shocked when it was revealed because I had no idea as nothing lead to that person.

I wish I could have enjoyed the book more and I feel so bad writing a negative review but I honestly just didn’t enjoy it.

Have you read it? If so what did you think?

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Meme/ Know Me Better #1

I was just recently introduced to this new blog I Am A Reader, Not A Writer and I was instantly hooked when I saw her pretty blog design. You should check it out if you haven’t already.

Kathy has created this wonderful meme and each week she will pick 5 questions off her author interview list for us to answer.

Kathy invites you to share your answers to these questions as well. You can either leave your answers in this weeks post which if you click here it will take you to it or you can create a post on your blog and then go back and link to this weeks post by clicking here and it will take you there.

This is my first week in taking part and I am so excited. This looks like it will be alot of fun and a great way to get to know me a little bit more.

What’s your favorite word?
What words or expression do you overuse?
If you were on Death Row what would your last meal be?
Pets?
Facebook or Twitter?

So lets get into my answers shall we.

What’s your favorite word?

  • This is one of those questions that I literally had to stop and think about.

What words or expressions do you overuse?

  • Okay in real life its always, Your not going to believe this! I have been told that I use this alot and I when I check my text messages I do write that alot. Online, especially my blog I use So a little more then I should.

If you were on Death Row what would your last meal be?

  • OMG that is so easy its a three cheese pasta dish with roasted vegetable. It so delicious but we don’t make it very often because its got roughly $20 worth of cheese in it. Yea that is the most expensive item in these dish. Honestly when you have it just once you want it all the time.

Pets?

  • No we don’t have any pets. We did have a cat before Michael was born and it was a cat with attitude. She started to scratch us for no reason and was developing sores so we had to put her down. Then when Michael started school he wanted a gold fish but months later it developed fin rot and died. I hate seeing animals die so I said no more pets. I can’t handle it.

Facebook or Twitter?

  • Honestly for me its gotta be facebook. I do use twitter but not as often as I should or like.

So this is my answers this week. Check back next week to see what else you can discover about me.

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MEME/ Sundays In Bed With… #31

The awesome blogger behind this is Kate from Midnight Book Girl   not only is she an awesome blogger but she is was one of my roommates for BEA. YAY!!

Midnight Book Girl

Sundays In Bed With….is a meme I’ve started to share the book we’re spending the morning in bed with, or the one we’d like to stay curled up in bed with all Sunday if only our busy lives would allow! For fun, take a picture of the book in your bed, or simply write up a post or comment below sharing your Sundays in Bed With book. Quoted from Kate’s blog.

Good Morning everyone. Oh how I wish I could be in bed reading this morning but I had to get up early because Michael has a 7am practice. Although I am sure I will be curling up on the couch reading this will he is gone.

Well the holiday is wrapping up and its been busy here. During Christmas Michael took part in a hockey tournament and they lost all their games but on the upside he took part in a curling tournament and his team took the bronze medal. So he was so happy for that. We will hopefully get that medal soon (there was a huge snow storm that do so no medals were handed out) and when we do I will post the pic of it.

On another good note its only the 6th of January and I am already beginning my third book. YAY for me. The first book was really good but the second not so good so I was really looking over my books to find something good to read and if your book cases are like mine you know what a challenge that can be.

 
When I was getting Michael’s back pack ready for school for Monday I saw this in the bin and noticed I have to return this to the library on Wednesday so this is my next book I will be reading.

I missed out on getting this book at BEA and its sounds really good so I am excited to read this.

What are you reading this week?

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NOTW #1

In one of the Facebook groups I am a member of they have a weekly feature called Friday Nails. Where you get to show of what you are wearing this week in nail polishes.

Talking to one of the members she had mentioned that this feature is a great way to use up the polishes you have in your collection and promote a new look for the next 52 weeks.

If you know me, you know that I have a ton of polishes and I mean a ton of nail polishes that I really need to start using.

So what better time then now to start. This will force me to start using what I have and to stop buying. Its all about accountablity right?

So this first week of January I have been sporting this look and doing touch ups when needed.

I did a base coat of clear polish from Revlon and when that dried I added Revlon Top Speed Metallic (#860) which is a silver  polish and I topped my accent fingers with Nicole by OPI’s Selena Gomez’s Sweet Dreams and that is a clear polish with sliver, teal, and purple glitter.

I thought it was a very nice look for New Years. What do you think?

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Topbox Goodies

I normally don’t do alot of online shopping  but I decided to take part  in a few of the sales that were going on during boxing day this past Christmas season.

One of the sales that was happening was on Topbox and honestly the only reason I decided to buy anything off them was because I had a $10 gift card that I wanted to use up before it was too late.

I really wanted the China Glaze nail polish but by the time I got online on December 26th they were all sold out so I decided that I would pick up this:

 
Its the MaskerAide Hydrating facial sheet masks. I decided to splurge a little and get the 6 piece mixed set instead of the packs that had the same four packs in them.
 
The masks are:
  • Weather Warrior (calm, soothe and heal)
  • Beauty Restore (restore, regenerate and repair)
  • Pre-Party Prep (brighten, prime and energize)
  • All Nighter (awaken, replenish and refresh)
  • Detox Diva (cleanse, exfoliate and detoxify)
  • I don’t wanna grow up (lift, firm and soften fine lines)
I am super excited to try these new ones I have I have gotten two in previous boxes and its nice to have a selection of new ones to try out.
 
Have you used these masks yet? What did you think of them?
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Glossy Box- December Edition

If you are a regular reader of my blog or follow me on facebook you know that I always enjoy Glossy Box because I personally find that they are pretty consistent month to month with the products they give and honestly everything they send is affordable in my opinion and pretty much attainable at your local pharmacy or retail store. Which is nice if you can’t afford high end items that are in some of the other boxes.

Shipping was a little off this month and I only just got this box today. Its due to the high volume of mail during the holiday season and short mail weeks. Hopefully January’s will be better.

This month it was a little different as you can tell the box is silver/gray in color but its the same sturdy box. We also got another Glossy Mag. I enjoy looking through it but I honestly hate the fact that there is alot of high end products listed in this magazine and nothing relating to the box or the items in the box.
 
I think if you are marketing your box with pharmacy brand products then you should have a magazine that reflects that in my opinion.
 
This is the inside lid of the box as you can see its silver/gray inside. I kind of like the look of the box this month. Its a nice little change from the standard box.
This month GlossyBox teamed up with LouLou magazine. I am a little disappointed since I was hoping that there might have been a discount to Glossy Box members for a subscription to the magazine which there wasn’t.
 
As you can see the package is tied up with a silver/gray ribbon which looks very nice with the box.
 
The first item I pulled out of the box was this bonus item of earrings from Nobia. They are pretty but sadly I don’t have pierced ears so this will be passed on to someone who does.
 
Next is the Avon Lip Radiance in Silver Foil. Its a lip gloss. I did a little swatch on my hand and it appears to be a clear gloss with some silver (glitter)  in it. It looks rather pretty on my hand. There is no smell to it and it appears not to be very sticky but honestly after reading some comments on the facebook page, (GlossyBox)  this is apparently a discontinued product. Do I really want to use this?
 
This is a full size item but when I got to the site I can’t even find this listed so I have no idea how much this cost. Not finding it on the site leads me to believe its discontinued.
I was excited to find a nail polish in my box and its by Revlon. You know me and my love affair with nail polish. Especially Revlon.
 
Its in the shade Tuscan Sun. I really like the shade and I don’t have anything in my collection this color. It smelled like nail polish  and it went on nicely but this too according to people posting on the GlossyBox face book page said this was a discontinued item.
 
Now knowing that these are possibly discontinued items annoys me. Would it bother you?
 
Its a full size polish (14.7ml)  valued at $5.99
Another item that I will be passing on to someone who can use them is these special edition (just for Glossy members) fake lashes. They are a full size item valued at $12.50
 
They look really nice and feel nice but honestly I am afraid to put any kind of glue near my eyes.
Something I am excited about is this TRESemme Fresh Start Volumizing Dry Shampoo. I saw this in the US this summer and was going to buy it but I changed my mind because I actually have a few dry shampoos to use up so getting this now its perfect. I can’t wait to try it out.
 
The full size is 161g for $5.99 and the sample is 56g for $2.08
 
Another bonus item they sent was the TRESemme split remedy packet. Which is actually nice because I now have enough for a full week to try it out (I got some packets in the mail recently)
 
The full size is 700ml for $5.99 and I got 9ml of Shampoo/Conditioner for $0.08
Finally I got two products by Aveeno and they were Positively Ageless day spf 30 moisturizer and Positively Radiant  tinter Moisturizer in fair to light which is perfect for me.
 
Now honestly after reading about two discontinued items in the box I was a little hesitate of these but I see that the Positively Ageless moisturizer expires in 12/2013 and the Positively Radiant  expires in 09/2013.
 
So these were full size items and the Positively Ageless is 75ml for $25.99 and the Positively Radiant is the same 75ml for $22.99
 
I like Aveeno so it will be nice to try these out.
 
As you can see the box did pay for itself with the Aveeno alone but I am a little disappointed knowing that two of the items are possibly discontinued?
 
Would you use them just the same?
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Are you planning on going to BEA in May 2013? Looking for a roomie?

 
I know you are probably cringing already seeing this kind of post so early in the year and I am sorry for that. Although BEA is technically a little more then four months away so its never to early to plan right?
 
But, the purpose of this post is to put a feeler out there for anyone who is thinking of going but the thought of the price is freaking you out.
 
This year it will be a little more expensive to attend BEA since they have put into effect a fee to enter. I think a three day pass is $104 and that is an early bird fee with no Book Blogger Convention. Its a little more if you plan on attending the BBC.
 
Anyways the purpose of this post is that I am planning on attending again for what is possibly my third and final time. I had a blast at the last two.
 
Once again I am in search of roomies for the week. The first year I went I shared with another blogger and then last year I shared with three other bloggers so that brought the price down alot. Honestly the only way I can attend is by sharing with fellow bloggers.
 
If you are thinking of going and looking for a roomie, would you consider sharing with me? If so please leave me a comment with contact info so that I can get in touch with you?

Thanks for reading this.

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